Sunday, July 26, 2015

When You Sweat From Every Pore In Your Body

Sawatee from Bangkok, Thailand!!!!!  

I am officially in Bangkok, Thailand!  I am writing this from True Coffee on ABAC Hua Mak campus since we still don't have Internet connection in our dorm.  The first 5 days have felt like 3 weeks to say the least. I can now say that I have survived a 15 hour pane ride, a one hour layover, a delayed connecting flight and finally arriving halfway around the world.  To give you all an idea, I left my house at 10AM on Monday, July 20th and officially arrived at my new home at Midnight on Tuesday July 21st.  I have never felt so gross, tired, and relieved in my whole life.  For anyone that cares, Cathay Pacific coach does not have a lot of leg room!! My knees were not happy, and after three airplane meals, all I was wanted was some real food.

After arriving at Assumption University Hua Mak campus we all headed to C building that is our home for the next 5 months, named C since the official name is Coronation Hall.  With my whole "family" of luggage, I found my room on the 13th floor.  After walking in, the first thing I saw in my bathroom was a dead cockroach.  Immediately, I knew I wasn't in America anymore.  I freaked out to say the least.  After finally getting to sleep, I had to wake up early the next day to get on a bus to go see the "new campus" of Assumption University.   The new campus is unlike any university in America.  It is opulent, over the top, and out of this world beautiful.  The architecture is grand.  There is marble and gold used all over the campus.  We walked all over the campus in the heat in our white blouse and black skirt uniform.  Every part of my body was sweating.  Though it is only 85 to 90 degrees, the type of heat is completely different then the US.  

The second full day we were here was a completely full day.  We woke up and took a two-hour bus ride to Pattaya, Thailand.  Pattaya is a big ex-pat community southeast of Bangkok.  Pattaya is a big Russian community.  Many of the signs in Pattaya are in Thai, English, and Russian.  We took the bus to Nongnooch Botanical Garden & Resort.  Nongnooch was a very bizarre place.  It felt almost like an amusement park meets a cultural education center.  There were easily 300 school kids there on summer camp/school trips.  We arrived and watched a cultural show that included Thai dancing, boxing, and elephants.  The costumes were stunning, and showed parts of the Thai culture, and just how different it is then American culture.  We then went to see an elephant show.  I was able to pay 100Baht to have an elephant pick me up.  100baht is about $3.50 American dollars!!  The elephants were so strong, and hairy.  Part of me felt uncomfortable watching the elephant show.  It included elephants playing soccer, painting, and riding a bicycle.  All of it was a little strange an out of the ordinary, but welcome to Thailand, nothing is similar to the US.  We then were able to walk around the gardens.  There weren't as many flowers as I was hoping, nothing like the Bronx botanical gardens.  The gardens were mostly palm trees and hundreds of different types of animal figurines. 

Yesterday we ventured into the downtown of Bangkok.  The traffic in Bangkok makes NYC traffic look like nothing, there are motorcycles, taxis, and buses all going very fast and making turns at anytime.  We all got into taxis and got onto the skytrain that took us to the biggest shopping mall in Thailand, Central World and Siam Paragon, two extremely upscale malls that are close together.  To experience the city, we ventured to a sky bar at the top of a hotel connected to Central World.  The view of the city was unreal!!!!  Going back to campus, a group of us navigated the sky train, and I hailed a cab and told the cab driver where we were going, I finally felt like I knew how to do something on my own.

The first few days have been non-stop!  We have been able to sleep in one day but I am loving each moment as it comes.  Everything is still so new, and I am missing home and my parents, but I know that I still have some much time to feel more comfortable and normal in a place that is so different. 

The money is so different, and I still need to get a better grip on how to spend smart.  The banking is confusing, my phone is confusing, and I don’t have Wi-Fi, which is disruptive, but I am absorbing everything as it comes.  All of the food has been good and slightly different.  I have been eating lots of rice, but last night we all went to a fancy dinner at a local restaurant that served mostly Laos food, lots and lots of spicy meats and vegetables.  I have been eating lots of new fruits and vegetables, and experiencing food that is so completely different then the food in America. 

Hopefully I will have another update soon, and I will be writing from my bed, not a café!

Love from the other side of the world,

Kate


Sunday, July 19, 2015

"All I'm Looking For Is An Adventure, For The Dreams In My Head"

Tomorrow, I drive to John F Kennedy Airport and board a flight to Hong Kong that will lead me to Bangkok, Thailand for 5 months.  I always knew that I wanted to study abroad but the question was always, where?  Paris was the dream.  However, when I chose Loyola, I learned about a program in Bangkok, Thailand.  I came to a quick and maybe irrational decision that I had to go to Bangkok.  I dreamed of riding elephants, eating exotic food, and seeing things I never knew existed on Earth.  This was my dream in September when I moved into Flannery O'Connor for my freshman year, and here I am a year and a half later, and I am going.

In November 2013, I went on a first year retreat through campus ministry.  I went to get away from campus, and go to a new environment since my homesickness was at an all time high.  Going on this retreat, I was about 75% certain that I wanted to go to Bangkok for my semester abroad.  However, on the retreat I met Brendan Hyland, a senior who had gone for his semester abroad there.  One night at dinner, I told him I wanted to go to Bangkok, and he convinced me.  There is no other way of putting it.  Everyone else I talked to could not describe how amazing the experience was.  I knew that I needed to follow through and get myself there. So a shout out needs to happen to Brendan Hyland for talking to me, sharing his story with me, and convincing me that Bangkok is the place I wanted to go.

I have lived in the same small suburb of New York City my whole life.  The biggest adventure I have been on is going to Baltimore to school and moving away from my family, or my family vacation to Canada, not to the other side of the world.  When I think about study abroad I think about eating endless amounts of unique food, seeing some of the most beautiful and ancient sites on Earth, and forming bonds with people that will last forever.  However, along with all of this comes sickness, home and physical sickness, fear of a new place and people, and immersing myself in a culture that is completely different then my own.  When I say Bangkok, the most common reaction is, "Why?"  "Why Thailand?"  "That is so far!!!"  All of these reactions are why I am going.  The things that make people nervous, make me excited (I know that sounds crazy).  Everything that will stand in my way and make me uncofortable is what I wanted.   I wanted to go somewhere they didn't speak English, I wanted to go somewhere unique and special, and most importantly,  I wanted to go somewhere that I would look around and not look like every person I see.  At this point in my life, I need to get out of my comfort zone, and see things and experience things I haven't had the opportunity to. At 20 years old, I am fit, I can climb a mountain, and I can jump on a plane without too many things to stop me.  At no other point in my life will I be in these circumstances, and that is why I couldn't say no to this opportunity.

Most importantly, my parents never stopped me.  So many of my friends parents said "No way" to the idea of traveling to Asia let alone, Thailand.  My parents heard me out, listened to me, and understood that this is what I want to do at this moment in my life.  So a quick shoutout to my mom and dad for supporting me and allowing me do this, and fulfill this dream of mine!!!

All I can say is that this is the adventure that will fulfill the dreams that are in my head, and I cannot wait to see where my life takes me these next five months.

Love Always (from my last night in my own bed),
Kate

Just a little FYI: Though I am the least creative person, this will be my little outlet to express what I am going through and what I am experiencing and for you (whoever you are that is reading this..) to follow along with me!!!

Towards the end of my Sophomore year, Natalia, my roommate discovered this song that perfectly sums up how I am feeling and what I am goingthrough...this is it  (Thanks Nat!!)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WeulwuTQkJ4